My husband isnt very dominant 😑😣

alright ladies. I have been trying my hardest for weeks now... I will tell him to treat me like a one night stand.. fuck me like he hates me.. boss me around.. and he WONT.

ugh. like we have great sex, don't get me wrong. we fuck all time, and it's always rough sex (which is my preference) , he chokes me, he smacks my ass real hard.. but there's no communication. it's always just eye contact and me moaning.

I ask him to moan at least a little so it at least seems as though he's enjoying it, but he says he is enjoying himself, he just doesn't feel comfortable making noises. I've been with this man for 6 fucking years but he's not comfortable moaning?! wtf.

his favorite and go to position is me on top, which I admit is fun, I always use my wand.. but if it's a position change, I have to decide what were gonna do and he always says the same fucking thing "it's your choice baby" I don't want it to be my fucking choice! I want you to pin me to the bed and fuck me until I can't walk right. I want you to tell me to get into certain positions and to be extremely dominant.. but he's the submissive one and boy, I hate it. but I love him to death and don't wanna fuck nobody else. what do I do?!? obviously trying to talk to him about what I want in bed doesn't make a difference.

Also, I asked him to bend me over his knee and spank me.. I didn't think it was that weird of a request because he spanks me all the time.. but when I asked him, "uhh why? that's such an odd way to spank someone." ugh i dunno. maybe I'm just wanting too much