I’ve never made a post like this but I thought I’d give it a try. I am 26 years old and have been married for a year and a half. My husband is 27. We have been having problems since before we got married. But I was so hopeful that after we got married the stress would be over and things would get better (we had a large wedding). And they have yet to get better, only worse. I am in nursing school and work full time at a hospital, my husband drives a truck and makes great money. But he ALWAYS says well you don’t pay half the bills...you don’t pay anything ect. When In fact I do. But I can’t contribute as much as he does because my job doesn’t pay like his does. And I’m in school. He lies to me frequently about things. Like drinking and other things that could affect both of us negatively. He was so kind and caring and would go above and beyond for me when we first started dating and now he does absolutely nothing. I try to keep doing nice things for him even though he doesn’t for me. More bothersome to me than anything else is the fact that we aren’t intimate or affectionate at all. It has literally been 2 months since we have had sex. THAT ISNT NORMAL. He won’t even let me touch his dick. I don’t get it. He doesn’t cuddle or want me anywhere near him. He says “I work so much I’m just exhausted and don’t want to right now”. I don’t think there are many men that would turn down sex when your wife is literally begging you. He also doesn’t like to kiss. I want to really kiss/have a make out session like I was in high school again haha. I’ve been trying to mend things for so long but I think I’m just ready to be done. Is that a rational thought? Or giving up? I have so much anxiety and over think about making the wrong decisions. But on the other hand life is so short and all I want is to be truly happy and be so loved and be in love.