First time mom and lost where to start

Nicole

So tonight was so overwhelming. My boyfriend and I went to babies r us to start shopping and taking advantage of the sales since they’re closing. when we got there I got so overwhelmed on what to get and what to wait on for the baby shower. I seriously had a meltdown and started crying and freaking out. I felt like I wasn’t a good mom. I felt Like I should know what to get right away, I know I’m being ridiculous because it’s all new for me and all my friends that have kids already told me it’s normal. But I still feel somewhat lost on what to put down on the registry and what I should get myself? Any advice? Not due till July but like to start now and get a little at a time so I don’t break the bank. Help please 🙏