BREAK UPS 😩😩

Has anyone had a sudden break up with there sig other and didn’t know how to feel? We technically called It a break but I’m hoping we can both come to an understanding that we should be Apart.

I have so much love for him and I know he has it back; that will never change. It’s just self happiness was missing in our relationship and it led to a lot of emotional dependency on one another especially on his end. Every argument turned into complete chaos bc we would both loose it

So I been talking to friends and trying to keep myself busy. I even found someone who’s very interested in me and now my mind is in complete confusion. How do I come to a conclusion where I have to completely breakup with my bf? We have yet to give each other’s belongings back and I feel like I’ll get sucked into going back in the relationship....ANY ADVICE????