First baby... bump?

Ok so I'm 19 weeks and 3 days now. Still dont look particularly pregnant unless I'm bloated. My tummy just seems flabby especially when I sit down but my waist is still small so it must definitely be baby... I was just expecting a hard round bump sticking out by now. Still no feeling of movement either 😣 scan a week on wed and i can't wait I miss my bubba feel like it's not there at the minute ..... anyone else feel the same?