I already know I'm going to hate for this but The tradition of not being able to wear white to a wedding is kinda overrated. No one is going to out shine the bride. If someone honestly thinks a guest is going to out shine the bride that's sad. That's why for mine and my fiancées wedding we are telling all of our female guest they can wear whatever color they want. Just because my dress is going to be black doesn't mean no one can wear black. My best friend is doing the same thing. I know I'll get crap for this but honestly it's overrated.