I can’t physically do it anymore


My boyfriend & i have been together for 5 years. Our son was born at 27 weeks. He is now a year old. That entire year i did it all by myself while he worked. Which yes i’m really grateful for it but i asked to take a shower and he would complain. Or bottle feed him once and he would complain. I would even ask to do my make up for 5 seconds and he would complain. All he does is buy our son stuff and that’s it. No interaction. Has not once given him a bath. Finally got him to change his first poopy diaper two weeks ago because i went back to work. On the weekends i work he watches them when my moms around ajd he makes plans and leaves so my mom can watch him. Like i just i want a father to bond with him and not just throw money in my face all the time. I need help sometimes