Long story short, my SD's mom is a real gem. She tried to keep SD away when my fiance left her for cheating on him repeatedly and then she found out he was with a much younger woman (me) just a few months after he moved out of their home together. He was nothing but good to her and provided for her and SD.

Well, BM (biomom) has a 3 and 4 year old with her boyfriend who is gone most weeks for work. SD says BM doesn't include her in taking care of the kids and SD feels like the black sheep in her home.

After 4 years in/ out of court and my fiance begging for a fair 50/50, BM is overwhelmed and granting it. We are elated! SD isn't a difficult preteen, but a preteen, nonetheless.

I have a feeling that my fiance will want to focus more on keeping SD on the right track, which I agree with and intend to help him and be an excellent role model.

I am also scared because he is getting older and I feel like he may put TTC on the backburner because of this new custody change. He finished inside me on Sunday for the first time in 5 years and neither of us can stop thinking/ talking about it since! I just turned 25 and he is 34 and we are both at a very good point in our careers. I know I am counting my chickens before they hatch, but I needed a quick vent. Thanks for listening!