how to find time for sex?

i have 2 under 2. my 1yr old is very clingy and has separation anxiety. however, hes a great sleeper and sleeps at 10pm-8am. my 1mth old baby cries a lot, especially at night time. he will only stop when being held or when we give him a pacifier, which falls off a lot and hed cry when it does. the swing or bouncet doesnt work on him. my husband works morn shifts, we used to were able to have sex every night. but now that my newborn starts to cry a lot, especially night time, were no longer able to have sex. anyone gone thru this?