UPDATE — Dating someone with a kid.

I absolutely hate to admit it, but I can't stand that my man has a kid with someone else.

& what gets me most is that I've dated someone with kids before & have NEVER had an issue, but something about THIS relationship/situation that just irks my nerves.

I dislike having to play parent on the wknds when I don't have kids. I dislike that I have to go out alone sometimes because my bf has his kid and can't take him with us.

I love him to death but I can't help but get so annoyed when we have to have his kid, especially because when he found out his ex was pregnant, he was wanting to pay her off for abortion but she didn't want to. Now he plays daddy of the year.

I know I should stop being selfish and just leave and move on but it's hard. ugh.

Update : I assumed I’d get all the hate comments. I failed to mention that’s it’s not the kid that I dislike , he’s a great kid but I hate who tf he had a kid with because it’s always her way or the highway. She’s hated me since day 1 and I’ve not done a thing to deserve it. In fact, I told my man the abortion wasn’t a good idea but she didn’t want to get it anyways.

When we get him, it’s as early as SHE wants and we can’t drop him off unless it’s late enough for her and she recooperated from her night out. And he’s too scared to tell her to get her shit together.

Update #2

Once again, no I do not have kids yet. His son is 2 now. His ex got pregnant during a period they were broken up , I met him about a month later.

I’ve always taken care of his son, and helped him become a better parent. Like I said doesnt have anything to do with the kid himself because he has no fault in all of this, it’s just the unnecessary bm drama and all her bullshit. She doesn’t want her son, but doesn’t want to give him to us because she wants to be tied to my SO still and put on a “mommy act” for Facebook.

In fact, last year she put her son in the hospital by fracturing his foot, rib and skull... and cps gave him back. Shes fucking scum.