I’m not perfect, I admit my hormones get the best of me sometimes. I usually apologize afterwards. This is by no means a pass for my boyfriend to use my PMDD or my period to justify any negative mood I may have. With that being said: when your SO gets shitty with you when he or she knows you’re having a shitty day and a short fuse, then says some mean shit that makes you freak out... how do you resolve this? Since you both acted out of anger? Recently it was resolved with a mutual Im sorry but... it’ll happen again. We just moved in together and he’s nitpicking about leaving lights on and not pushing the garbage down, leaving my water glass in the bedroom.. you name it. I spend 9 hours cleaning the entire house a week top to bottom and I just feel the jabs are unnecessary. Now this man built me a vanity, painted it, gave me a room in his house for my vanity and my reading nook, makes dinner a lot, always picks me up from work and I don’t ask him to... he’s a god send but how am I supposed to deal with the negatives?!