Is it ok for your other half to say how freaking hot another person is?

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I voted no because it would break my hubbys heart if I pointed out a hot guy. I think i would be equally as hurt if he did that to me. I don’t mean to say that either of us has to be blind to people’s appearances, but to make a point to comment to the other person whom you are married or dating, seems more like you are trying to put them down or make them feel less “hot”. At least that’s just my opinion🤷🏼‍♀️ I think it really depends on each person and each relationship. My dad use to comment on some women’s appearances when I was a kid and it always made me feel like he was saying Mom wasn’t as pretty as these other ladies. So I guess that’s where my point of view comes from. My parents have been married for almost 30 years so I am sure he never really meant it that way. ❤️

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I think it's kind of rude to tell me who he finds hot unless it's like a celeb crush or whatnot. L I personally don't care who he finds attractive but I don't want to have it shoved in my face.

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no. i get way more annoyed when he talks about how ugly someone is. like wtf do you care. theyre probably doing their best and dont need you to look down on them when its not your business

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if they're famous or maybe you mention it first...maybe even if it's a stranger I would say its ok? I think it depends on how it is addressed. every person is different too though. like if a model looking woman came walking down the street and my boyfriend said like woah she is really beautiful i may agree, but I can also see it being as though I'm not good enough or something? If it's a famous person I must say I am definitely guilty of saying how hot they are but we know I will never see them in real life. I feel like maybe its more acceptable if you know theres no chance they could ever be with them verses it being someone that could be seen as possible competition. Did that help at all? It really is dependent on each person and their relationship I think though.

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It wouldn’t bother me. I admit when I find people attractive all of the time

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I find it disrespectful. I understand everyone is beautiful and what not and we all have our types but I think at a certain point paying attention to someone else’s looks and then making a comment about the person is completely childish, unnecessary and just disrespectful. My husband would never. His eyes are on me and our daughter. I’ve never seen his eyes wonder, he respects me and others around us.

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I say it all the damn time. I don’t see the problem

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I think it depends on how solid your relationship is and the opposite persons feelings. If your SO has already talked about how it hurts their feelings or they get jealous easily, than it’s probably not a good idea to do. I’ve pointed out cute girls to my husband and I’ve talked about how hot that guy is. And he’s shared his opinions as well. We’re at a very solid place in our relationship now but if he would have pointed out a cute blonde five years ago I probably would have taken it to heart.

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I personally wouldn’t have an issue. My fiancé can window shop he just cant buy in my opinion lol. It’s different for everyone. I mean celebrities are completely fine cuz we all think it’s very rare they’re gonna meet in real life but if it’s Marjorie on tesco check outs then it Depends how you feel about it. make him aware if ur not ok with it though but remember he can’t walk around with his head down either. Remember communication is key with things like this I feel if you let each other know how you feel about the situation ull be fine ☺️ but this is just my opinion ☺️ x

Is it ok for your other half to say how freaking hot another person is?

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