I can't believe her..

My best friend since high school sends me a picture of a positive pregnancy test. She's married and I automatically assume that's she's planning to tell her husband the good news.

They are in an open relationship and this is her third child and her other two were taken by cps and they are trying to get them back. They are good parents but not in a good living situation.

Just found out its her side boys baby. She told me he didn't care but I'm also friends with her with her husband. He's passive and doesn't like to fight with her at all.

My husband and I are actively trying for our first so this hits home a little more because she doesn't care.

I know her husband cares and he thinks its disrespectful and cause she didn't try to protect this from happening. She doesn't care about anyone. Even her husband and I don't wanna ruin our friendship over this. I just wish she would think about the bigger picture..

Should I tell her how I feel or just leave it be? I don't have a problem with her open relationship. But I feel like I should tell her something to give her a little insight about what she's done..