Am I the only one that just can’t date men with kids??

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I don’t have any and once I’m at a point in my life where I want to have them I want us to have our first together. Does that make me a bad person?

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No. I’m a hypocrite in this area. I have a 4yr old and and I’m now engaged to the guy I’ve been with for 2 years. 
But honestly I have refused to date men that have kids. I don’t want to deal with the drama from their exs. And It’s just a turn off if he has kids by multiple women. Where’s the stability.

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not at all. it's completely different dating someone with a child and not everyone is up to that, and that's okay.

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I would have never dated a guy with kids, too much baggage for me

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nope I'm the same way, My first child had to be his first child and even if we split I still wouldn't date anyone with kids simply because I know how crazy I am over my son's dad and wouldn't want to deal with another woman like myself 😂🤦

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I have dated men with kids and it didn't last because they proved to be bad fathers. "Oh I don't see my kid because I don't wanna deal with my baby mama. She's crazy, she's a whore." No, that isn't acceptable. I couldn't be with a man who not only isn't mature enough to take care of his responsibilities but also talks down about women. As a father he lays the foundation for how his son will treat women or hpw his daughter will expect to be treated. Grow up, respect the mother of your child (even if you don't like her anymore) and be a stable parent for your child. Or stay the fuck away from me. (((I know there are legitimately some really cruel women, who don't let the fathers of their children be the parents they want to be and that isn't what I'm talking about. I'm talking about refusing to take care of kids and bashing women.)))

Am I the only one that just can’t date men with kids??

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