HSV1 ,he makes no sense

since finding out I have HSV1 (no symptoms) my boyfriend acts uncomfortable about kissing me and trys to avoid doing so ,yet he will sleep with me with no protection... makes zero sense. I have explained it shouldnt change anything since weve already kissed so much in the 3 months of dating.. I get its scary thing to find out but damn you'll stick your dick in me but wont kiss me 🤔 ......................HSV1 is known as cold sores (oral herpes) but you can also get it in the gential area if someone with a cold sore gives oral. I do not have symptoms so I do not know where I carry the virus.. it can be spread without a cold sore,so he probably already has it,or he could of been the one to give it to me since he hasn't been tested. I get he is probably scared but he'll share cigarettes and joints with me but won't kiss...