I'm gonna rip my hair out

I'm constantly listening to my three best friends bitch about their husbands. About how bad they treat them, how mean they are, how they don't love them. Like listen I'm as compassionate as the next person, but then fucking leave them. And then they'll be like you know what I mean, and I'm like no girl I left the dude who treated me like that. My husband now is a fucking saint. That man would move mountains for me. Find yourself a man that would move mountains for you. Trust me this "stability" you're creating for your kids is a farce. Your kids fucking know when their parents treat eachother like shit and one doesn't respect the other. Trust me, first hand experience. I still haven't fully forgiven my father for his years of emotional abuse to my mother and us kids. So what if he's got other mental/physical problems, that doesn't mean you're nonexistent. Like fucking DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!!! Don't come to me like I can solve your shitty life, and dont expect me to not shit talk your shitty husband. I'm not going to tell you everything will be peaches and roses because it won't be. So if you don't want to fucking take my advice then why are you going on and on about it. My life is pretty fucking amazing so I can't commiserate with your shitty life sorry. My lord!

I don't talk like this to my friends, I'm very sympathic. I listen even when I don't want to and try to be a shoulder to cry on if nothing else... but I had to get this off my chest. ❤❤