Husband has lower sex drive 😒

My husband’s sex drive is much lower than mine. Sigh. His sex drive I’d say is fairly normal, mine is pretty high for a woman I guess. I was totally unprepared for that going into marriage!! Men are ALWAYS complaining about their wives not wanting sex, making excuses like “ I’m too tired” or “I have a headache” I thought that women always have lower sex drives than men, but i guess that’s not true! My husband is the one making those excuses to me 🙄 it’s so frustrating. I always thought that whoever I marry will feel so lucky because I am always game to have sex, meanwhile most women are trying to get out of it with their husbands. 🤷🏼‍♀️ its so annoying because on one hand he tells me no to sex, than I look at his phone and he’s watching all kinds of slutty videos on social media. Hello?! For real? Im not bad looking either, maybe a little too thin, but I’ve got a nice shape! I can’t help feeling like a lot of guys would be very happy to have me, and my husband doesn’t even want to have sex with me. 😒 anyone else in my shoes?