Me and my new boyfriend hung out the other night and he asked if I would be into having sex. I told him no and he respected that.

The problem is is that I’ve never ever felt a sexual urge. The thought of having sex in any way or form doesn’t do anything to me. The thought of having sex kind of grosses me out slightly but that’s more of a personal germ problem.

What should I do? I’m 19 so I know that it still could be pretty early on for me to feel urges but what should I tell him? I don’t even really like the thought of kissing.

Any advice would be really appreciated.