Does losing your virginity before marriage make your marriage or the first time you have sex with your husband “ less special”

So recently I have been getting shamed by quite a few people because I’m not a virgin. They say my marriage will not be as special or stable. This made me feel very depressed because I’ve always to be in love with someone and to feel special. I’m not saying I regret losing my virginity but it sucks when people are trying to make me feel guilty about it. ( note I am not engaged or married, This is for future reference). What is your thoughts on this?

Keep in mind I am Christian 😊

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