husband is infuriating me

he doesn't realize how emotionally distant he has been lately. he says I've just been extra bitchy lately and that's why he just comes home from work and plays games with his friends but I've only been "bitchy" lately because when I tried to talk to him about it he literally ignored me and was on his phone and had no clue what I had just said. like shit wtf am I supposed to do. he just doesn't take shit seriously ever unless it directly deals with him. I'm coming to my breaking point and idk wtf to do