So I recently found out I’m 6 weeks pregnant. I’m super excited about it, even though it’s more of a “Surprise!” baby, but my boyfriend is like “All my dreams are ruined and our lives are ruined” and stuff like that. I’ve confronted him about our baby every day since finding out, and literally every time he doesn’t want to talk about it or we somehow end up arguing because he isn’t taking responsibility.

My first ultrasound is in two weeks and I told him I want him there, but he says he has work at the time of my appointment. How do I make him understand the seriousness of the situation? This is our very first baby. I get he’s afraid, but he said he was a responsible person and so far I haven’t seen it. Any advice?