When he's complaining about a messy closet, a junk drawer or Christmas totes that haven't been stored when you've asked him for months to stay home a Saturday so you could do those things but it's too hard with baby...and he comes back with " shouldn't a housewife have all of it done " uhmmm excuse me: first off we ain't even married. Secondly no one visits. I keep the house cleaned-picked up. It obviously didn't bother him before.