Should I tell my fiancée I’m pregnant yet? 👰🏼🤰🏼

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Hi Ladies,
So I just found out I’m pregnant (4wks) yay! 
My fiancée and I are getting married in a little more than 2 weeks and I can’t decide whether to tell him I’m pregnant yet or not. 
I think it would be really nice to tell him on our wedding day however it would mean going to the first scan without him. 
This will be my second child but my fiancées first biological. He’s the type of guy that would be at every appointment and every scan. 
Is the surprise worth risking upsetting him that he didn’t get to go to the first scan?
xx

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I’d reschedule the ultrasound then wait til my wedding day to tell him as a surprise wedding gift ☺️

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Emotions can run high at a wedding. No matter how large or small your cebration will be, there will be a lot of stress for both of you. He needs time to process the news, and you want to make sure that he will react well. Tell him now, so he has time to get excited and be there for you from the very beginning.

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I was 9 weeks pregnant at our wedding! Told my hubby as soon as I found out at 3weeks! We decided to take a picture holding our first scan on our wedding day, It was a secret picture of the day as only parents and siblings knew! We now have this picture on a canvas hanging in our daughters room!

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There is a lot going on at weddings and maybe it would be best if you said “I want to give you your wedding gift early” and create a beautiful way to tell him so you both can enjoy the moment.
You’ll maybe get 5 minutes of alone time and if you want to keep it under wraps still, you prob won’t be able to if it’s announced to him the day of. 
Also the 2 weeks prior are kinda crazy with getting everything ready- might be nice if he knows why your exhausted or not feeling the greatest. It’s a lovely idea to wait til the wedding day but may add extra stress.

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I accidentally hit tell at wedding..but I think he should be there from beginning to end. So I would definitely tell him now 😊

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If he is more on the controlling/firm side, I could see him being upset, however, if he will understand you wanting to keep it a surprise, I would keep it a secret until wedding day. That is so fun and so sweet!!

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I think it would be better to tell him now so that way he can be there for the scan. It is his first after all. Plus he'll wonder why you can't drink at your wedding.

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I would tell him now. One because it’s still a couple of weeks until the wedding and two I wouldn’t want to be told on my wedding day.

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I’d tell him especially if you know he would want to be at every appointment and he’d miss your first appointment, he might be a bit upset with missing that. My husband said the first ultrasound and the gender ultrasound were by far his favorite ones.

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Could you reschedule the scan?

Should I tell my fiancée I’m pregnant yet? 👰🏼🤰🏼

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