This a long story made shorter, but is love at first sight really possible?

So last month in my birthday I met this guy and the first time my eyes landed on him life just paused, my only thought was I had to know who he was. I introduced myself to him , bra I was drunk and we were at the club and I held out my hand to him lol. By the end of the night I couldn’t help but to kiss this strange man. I ended up getting his number and a week went by and nothing. I texted me to apologize because even drunk I felt outta character and that I was being very forward after just meeting him. He responded and we texted for that day. It was very dry and I just thought he wasn’t interested. Another week goes by and I find out he’s asking about me and trying to get my friend to get me to go out with her. I do and he’s still has me like wowzers. And he was all over me and super happy to see me apparently he didn’t think I’d give him the time of day. Now we text all the time and he’s so wonderful. We met up again and again he’s saying everything right. He tells me he wants me to be his and his only and that he got feelings for me. He didn’t think I’d show up again and just happy to see me. I feel like I’ve been falling in love since I first saw him. Is this crazy ? Can feelings really happen this fast. I was in a abusive relationship last time and now I’m just scared of my feelings right now. Are we rushing this I mean we only agreed to start dating. And he’s down for anything I want to do. Also I’m 24 and he’s 30. I have a son and he doesn’t care at all. He’s totally crazy about me and I’m sure if I feel so deeply for him because my last relationship was nothing like how I’m feel or ever felt or because he’s it. We are suppose to meet up again Friday and that makes only 4 times together, but I miss him and he tells me he misses and loves everything about me.

Also we have had sex twice and dude had me speaking Spanish and I’m not that fluent😂😂. So they sex is mind and back blowing. I also hope it’s just not lust that’s giving me these feelings I don’t feel like it is because the first meeting we didn’t have sex.