I was looking up butt plugs and my boyfriend said not to I asked why he said we don't need toys I asked of course if he meant at all 0 toys and he said at all .... My mind rushed all my ideas of spicing up out freaky sex time together and I don't know how to feel about it... eventually doing the same thing over and over will get a little boring I love to spice things up and try new things with him but he doesn't seem to try to try the new things with me what am I to say..