pelvic floor concerns... HELP!

Mi

I'm 5w pp and I still can't stop the flow of urine. and I'm starting to get very discouraged and worried that my pelvic floor is taking to long to heal... I have been doing kegels or trying to I guess. can't feel what muscles I'm using all the time yet. anyone else take a bit longer to heal their pelvic floor and what did u do to help it along? also worried how this will effect my sex life... so much worry :/ p.s. can't see a physical therapist for it right now since I currently live 2 hours from any specialist. so that's not an option sadly