My man never wants to have sex!!!

Never!!! Like I’m lucky if I get it once a week. He plays video games constantly, and hardly ever makes time for me. I’ve talked to him about it several times, and it never gets any better. I try to initiate it, and always get shut down. It hurts. And I’m so honey all the time. I don’t know what to do. Masturbating isn’t the same. I hate this.