So hubby and I have hit a dry spell and not because of me. He's really impatient. We have a eight month old daughter and he travels for work. I do most of the work when it comes to her, but he does wake her up, changes diapers, and feeds her for me if I'm swamped with household chores, which is often. Well, when it comes to sex we're amazing together. Totally in sync. Lately, when I'm done with cleaning and she's down for a nap I sit down for a moment and relax before she wakes up. He paws at me. Even though I'm exhausted and wanting to rest from getting no help with the house. I tell him to be patient and I will take care of him in a minute. Next thing I know he runs to the bedroom, because he "doesn't want to waste an erection." So now it's escalated into him throwing fits about how we only have sex at night, after the baby is asleep. Which isn't completely true, but it is often. I let it slide. Tonight, he's out of town on business. He told me we'd video chat and masturbate together, and I was so excited! He knew I was excited. So I hop in the shower and when I get back I asked if he was ready and he looked at me and said, oh I already came. I masturbated while you were in the shower. I'm so annoyed right now. We made plans. And he ruined them because hes impatient. This isn't the first time its happened. We haven't had sex in like two weeks, because every time I came to him to ask if he wanted some of this ass, he would say yes, but he can't get hard because he masturbated already. And then proceeded to try to have sex with me while I was using my vibrator and I was kind of excited because I knew it would feel good and not thirty seconds goes by and he came. AGAIN. I'm getting so frustrated. What do I do? I've tried talking to him and just having sex even if I'm exhausted and this is still happening. Please help me and leave some advice.