Sorry this post is sooo long....My boyfriend and I have been together for going on almost 6 years. Have a 15mth old girl. Am expecting our sec child in oct. today was my birthday. We got into it earlier this week it lasted 2days of just irritated tension. We finally made up after I asked to go down on him Friday morn. My hormones are crazy and I want to make love more often than norm. the time b4 last we didn’t make love for 3 weeks! Granted a few days I was spotting and nervous we didn’t want to risk anything till I seen the obgyn. But it seems EVERY time it’s just turned to me asking him to make love or go down on him. My mother watched our daughter Friday night. He got in from work I was shopping for Easter I got in took a bath shaved and lotioned kinda looking forward to an evening with just us especially after pampering myself without any interruptions. Nothing. He sat on the couch we talked just a little I even picked up some ky and other things for a very untraditional Easter basket. I gave it to him and he just asked when I got this stuff😒. I ASKED .... again wanna make love? No not really just really tired. The box sat on the couch and is still there. We had all night i knew he’d probably be tired as usual so I let it passed. He’s “happier” in the am. Am came around.... still nothing. Mom dropped baby off I proceeded to get ready he stayed in bed till he HAD to get up. Not even a happy birthday from him. We go to town. Did much of nothing except a few errands. Headed home. Dinner was set for 5.baby is napping so I see another opportunity 😏. We laid on the couch and he falls asleep.... I get up after my body falls asleep. Notice it’s 5:15. He wakes up momentarily to say dinner is now at 7 he goes back to sleep. Baby is asleep baby daddy is asleep. It’s my bday and I’m staring out the window watching the beautiful day go by...☹️. We go to dinner we have a good time. I’m thinking okay I’ll put the baby to sleep and we can FINALLY make love😍😍😍. He falls asleep on the couch and is still there I went to bed by myself...on my birthday. Am I being selfish. Should I not feel hurt like I do? Is it just my hormones outta wack?? Does he not want me anymore? Am I that unattractive after 5 years?? 😤😖😫😢. Our love life has turned into me always asking to make love there’s no romantic for-play intense make outs. And 7xs outta 10 he just says let me just hold you! Otherwise I go down on him and that’s it he doesn’t even rub my back! He just returns the favor by one of us getting on top of each other. He has only once or twice gone down on me in the past 3 years. Am I wrong to feel like I do?!😥 b4 I got pregnant again we made love at the 1-3xs a week! What did I do??