I need your guys opinion on a situation I’m in. I got kicked out of my moms house a few weeks ago, and my really good friend (who I’ll call Sarah) of almost 4 years said I could sleep on her couch.

I’d come to Sarahs house around 7:30am (I work 3rd and get off at 7am), sleep until 5pm, then leave to get myself food because sarahs boyfriend made comments about me eating dinner with them like 3 times but not paying for it. So I wanted to respect them and not eat food I didn’t pay for.

Well, this weekend all of me and Sarah’s friends and us were at our mutual friends house. Sarah was acting mad all day, and she started cussing me out, telling me how I’m a bum and everything, saying a lot of really mean things. I got mad but remained calm. I was so angry I texted a different good friend of mine, venting to her, explaining how my Sarah was acting crazy.

Later that night, we ended up going back to sarahs place. When I woke up, l found a note saying that I need to get the fuck out of her house. Sarah also made comments about my drug usage in the past, asking if I was too fucked up on those drugs to do certain things. Even though I’m clean.

What had happened was while I was asleep, she went through my phone and saw those texts to my other friend. I was very mad that she went through my phone.

Also, I specifically asked her if everyone was fine with me staying there and if I needed to pay anything, she said no.

I want to know if I should try and fix this friendship or if it seems toxic. Thanks 🙂