my husband adores our daughter so had started making noises that he wants a sibling for her to play with. although the idea is sweet I do 99% of the caring for our daughter, feeding, changing, bathing etc. he will play with her for 10 minutes when he gets home from work and then disappears. so my question is knowing that I will have to do all the work with a second is it really wise to have another? do you ladies with 2 think it's worth the hard slog? please help!