baby bump- an insecure first time mom


I'm almost 17 weeks and I'm not showing yet, it makes me super insecure. I just want to look pregnant, I struggled with infertility for 10 years and once we stopped trying bam I became pregnant. I'm 5'8 196#, I know every woman is different but I really just want my baby bump that I worked so damn hard for! When did you start showing? here is a picture of me a couple weeks ago and all I can see is my stomach fat 😭😭. my weight is maintaining and all ultrasounds shows baby is doing extremely well. I guess I'm just looking for words of encouragement. I hope you ladies have a beautiful day πŸ’šπŸ’š