How to tell my partner I need more affection?

Question

I am so lonely in my own home even though I'm with my partner 90% of the time. We never kiss, hug or cuddle, and only have sex twice a month and don't cuddle afterwards. We don't really flirt, we're just kind of "flat".. I sleep in a separate bedroom with our 5 month old baby because he won't sleep in a crib and I have to cosleep. How do I let my partner know that I need a little love, reassurance and affection?

Answer

Just tell him.

Answer

Me and my partner are the same except it the other way round I’m not affectionate with him I don’t know why I obv love him some people are just very different I’m the way they show affection. We don’t hug kiss have sex rarely and I sleep on sofa he sleeps on bed. I’m 26 he is 23 so he is like this ain’t normal we are so young we do have kids and that takes it out of me a lot of the time. But I don’t really like being all huggy kissey blah blah blah. I tell him I love him all the time but it’s not enough in his eyes. I won’t change and be may not it’s just the way he is. Did you use to be all lovey together? Has it only just changed? xx

Answer

Give him more affection, flirt with him and do what you would like to get back. If that won’t help- talk to him.

How to tell my partner I need more affection?

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