Married to a wall!!

I’ve been with my husband for 10 years married 2. We started dating when I was 16 so I was pretty young he was older then me. I’ve always had issues with getting him to communicate and show affection. His a very cold man when it comes down to showing affection even complimenting me when I go out of my way to impress him he still doesn’t budge. I’ve spoken to him a multiple times about my feelings and emotions but i never get a response and he still doesn’t even make an effort. The only thing my husband is very verbal about is our daughters. His an AMAZING father I love seeing him interact with them I can’t complain when it comes down to them. As far as we go the only time we even touch each other is during sex or if I come up to him and give him a hug or something. It’s literally like being married to a wall. We also been having problems with what our next step is going to be as far as our future goes. We been living with my Mil and I’m ready to go, whenever I bring up moving he either says nothing or gets defensive so I have to end the conversation before it gets ugly. We’re clearly not on the same page and divorce has been Heavy on my mind. Anyone ever been in this sort of situation. Any advice is great appreciated cause I feel completely defeated and im emotionally exhausted. I can’t keep loving us for both of us. I can’t keep giving him my all and I get half assed. 😢