Self-love

Alondra

How can I achieve loving my self? I’ve tried but for some reason I see my flaws more than I see my positive things. It’s affecting myself as a person and relationships with other people (like romantic or friendship). It’s hard for me to accept a compliment and when I don’t, people give me shit about it :/ i try to accept them but when I do I feel bad so instead I make jokes or change the subject. I need help, I wanna better myself and change for my sake and the sake of others. I’m open for any type of answer. Please and thank you :)