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I just had my baby almost 2 days ago but i can’t help but feel overwhelmed and that my boyfriend doesn’t find me attractive anymore. i know i’m only two days pp but i just want my old body back lol i love that it carried my son but i can’t help but feel so gross. this is all so overwhelming. any suggestions on how to cope with everything?

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Mine wasn’t necessarily getting the body back. For me I kept thinking.. how the hell is he going to want me after everything he’s seen? I had a c section and couldn’t bend so he needed to help me change my pads the first couple of times when my mom wasn’t there and help me shower. It was so embarrassing and I kept apologizing. I felt so gross. Let me tell you.. we got home and he couldn’t wait for the 6wks lol. I was so amazed that he actually found me attractive again.. stitches, glue, baby flab and all lol. Don’t stress it. You’ll be back to normal in no time.

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Just focus on the baby for now and eat healthy and after the 6 weeks you can start working out to make yourself feel better but it does take time to get your old body back for sure. Don’t think about it too much.

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