I recently got engaged. My fiancé recently moved from Oregon to Indiana to be with me. The weekend after, he proposed. He is currently taking online classes and I started my full time job an hour and a half away. He’s been staying with me, although his belongings are at a family members house. Since he’s been back, I don’t feel like I’m a priority anymore and he puts his foot in his mouth. I will leave for work at 6 am and come back at 6pm. He will be just getting in the shower when I arrive, or he will start an online test minutes before I’m supposed to be there. The other night I wore sweats and a T-shirt to bed and he said “why can’t you wear something more feminine to bed”? This morning I woke up at 3 am, and I asked him to snuggle with me.... he said “why should I have to get uncomfortable just so you are comfortable?” I was extremely hurt. Am I being nitpicky? I tried talking to him and his response was that we needed relationship counseling. “You only see the the things that you chose are wrong... never mind the thousands of good I do.” I constantly tell him thank you for the things he does... but I also have needs...needs he knew about well before we established a committed relationship....thoughts?