Okay. So I need to know if it’s hard for any other women on here to allow themselves to “let go” or get off when they are with their man? It’s not that I’m not aroused or fully wet it’s just some times I clench up and can’t seem to allow myself to release what it needs to. He seems to think it’s him and it gets to him. I’ve told him it’s me and it’s something I’m working on and he’s being amazingly patient about it, but it sucks and puts me in pain at times. Any ideas of what I can do to help with this?