Visitors in hospital


I once read a cute little saying to post on Facebook before the baby is born mentioned how to only come up to the hospital if invited and everyone else wait. Does that ring a bell for anyone? I’ve searched for it but can’t find it. I wasn’t too worried about it until a friend of mine told me she was gonna come up and see him once he’s born and I wasn’t very happy she just assumed especially since we see each other maybe once every 5 months and talk rarely. I just want to prevent people from assuming they can come up. Between my immediate family and my husbands we already have 11 people coming up and I’m just nervous I’m going to get over whelmed with all the people...especially since it’s our first and I’m not sure what to expect.