So I’m in a bit of a situation.. my husband an I recently moved back home to be closer to our families. However his track record with the women in his town aren’t very good. I trust my husband,I think, but I’ve always had this feeling that he talks to other women while We’re at work. With us being back in town his town especially, it’s given me this feeling he’s going to go find some strange which isn’t strange to him cause he’s had it before, and go mess around on me. Well I’m sorry you’ve heard the saying if you go looking for something you don’t wanna find, chances are you’ll find it.

Well tonight I did. 😔 and unfortunately just as I was fixing to lay his phone down I checked his DMs on IG and there it was. Messages between him and his ex girlfriend who for a little while when we were first together thought that her son was my husbands. Asking to meet up and all of that. She thank the freakin lord declined the sexual part and said she was happy with her guy and that he was married and needed to respect me. But did say she would meet up with him but she’d have her kid.

Now long story short, WTF do I do. I went snooping 😔 I know I shouldn’t have. But this has happened before, but we weren’t married and unfortunately I let it go cause he never actually cheated. But He’s now married and always tells me he’d kill for me and would never cheat on me. And then this happened.

How am I supposed to bring something up like that when he’s gonna know that i find it by going through his phone? PLEASE SOMEONE FREAKING HELP ME!!!

And on a side note, we’re looking to buy our first house together, and have our first kid. And now Idk if I want that.