It‘s been months now and I still hurt like it was yesterday. I finally broke up with my boyfriend without an argument for cheating and I can’t seem to get my acts right. I mean, I’ve met a couple of nice guys but all I do is compare them with my ex and then I get away before anything could start.

Recently I met this guy and he’s in the military. He’s shown me so much love, I like him and I enjoy spending time with him but I don’t know what or how to direct my feelings towards him because my mind is still clouded with my ex and I’m scared i‘m going to lose yet another good guy because of an asshole.

Please I need a help or tips on how to move passed this bondage... it’s tearing me up.