How do I get my husband to step up with this whole process? I feel like since finding out we are pregnant we've steadily gone backwards and he has become less and less concerned about me and the baby more about him. When people ask, he talks like he's so excited, but when it comes to actually preparing and talking about the baby at home, it's like he doesn't want to talk about it or do anything to help. It's one thing to be like this now, but it worries me about what it will be like in September. If I hear "Well we have plenty of time before September," I just might scream. Any advice?