So the fiance and I are wanting to plan a cheapish first wedding (one that we can afford right now). He thinks we should just go to the court house and then when we renew our vows, have the bigger extravagant wedding. But I don't really want to be rushed through a court house and have it be plain jane. (Since its our/my first wedding, i would like moments to remember.) We want a Halloween wedding, so around 10-30-18. What is some tips or advice, or possible ways we can agree on the wedding together? Thanks!