Where do you get your confidence?

Haley

I see a lot of girls around and on here and they are SO CONFIDENT. I'm extremely jealous not gonna lie, I have never been self confident, somehow even less so with my body/appearance (I'm not posting for compliments, more so for advice on how to be more confident).

So how do you ladies do it? Like no amount of other people complimenting me has ever improved my view of myself or my confidence in my shape, size, or general appearance. I look down and see all my flaws, wondering why anyone would ever look at me as anything more than funny looking and chubby...

I really want to be more confident in myself but the only time I see myself as anything better is when I'm blasting sassy music and dancing in my room alone...

So help a girl out, give me some tips on what makes you confident in yourself!