so just to clear this up as quickly as I can:

I'm a virgin (in college so it's kinda weird admitting) and incredibly shy about everything sexual. I get horny, sure, but I can't dirty talk well or anything. I'm a quiet person.

I'm also going to lose my virginity in May to my girlfriend when she gets back from college and I stay over her place over the summer.

Needless to say I am TERRIFIED. I want to do this with her but I'm incredibly shy. I know nothing about pleasing her and I haven't even put anything...down there before. How do I do my best for the both of us and make this a good experience? Help!!

PS: my gf is trans and pre-surgery, so she technically still has a penis and all that. I feel like that might be important to mention when it comes to orgasms and all that.