for my married couples. if your husband just magically plans a trip to his home town and says you and the kids are not coming. mind you if it's a break he's wanting you need one too. yall do everything together and always have. he got attitudes and saying all kinds of stuff. not understanding what's going on. you tell him you need a break just as well and feel so over whelmed but there is no understanding it emotional support given. didn't even have sex before he left. thoughts? I understand people need personal time but this is an unusual situation. even if he wanted to do his own thing he still could have I told him we can get room the kids and I and I know his mom would have liked to see the kids. you spend most of your money on the family in general and he doesnt make as much but took his whole check and dipped. I need answers