Can’t orgasm during insemination -tmi

Tahj • Ttc baby # 1 💕

Soooo inseminating is the least arousing experiencing I’ve ever had. I think that’s a factor in why I’m not getting pregnant. My wife tried to assist but I just don’t want her too because idk it’s kinda weird lol I got a cup of sperm inside me 🤢 And I try doing it solo but that doesn’t work bc I just can’t focus and at the same time I’m focusing too much. Any tips for the ladies who can achieve orgasm during insemination? Cause I’m praying I can just get pregnant without but I’m hearing how having an O is like the golden ticket and the cervix is the chocolate factory.