sperm donation & at home insemination

Maranda

My fiance is a parapoligic and we've been told it's highly unlikely we could get pregnant, neither one of us are the point in spending massive amounts of money on something that's probably not going to work. So we've been looking into sperm donation. we know we want to at home insemination, AI. I was just wondering how people found their donors and how they went about doing that?