Question for the married women! Please read!

I need to read love stories of how you met your husband. Has he ever disrespected you, belittled you or made you feel less of a woman? I wonder these things because I’ve lost hope in the male species. I look at married couples and think wow I wonder if he’s ever broke her heart? What obstacles did they have to overcome to get here? Share your stories, please. PS I’m dealing w/ a broken heart 💔