The first time was like 30 seconds and it felt nice

The second time was way longer and it felt good it’s just I couldn’t get to that point where I had a Orgasm.

Is this normal?

When I masturbate I rub my 🐱 instead of inserting anything and I can have orgasm everytime. I watch porn and it’s like when the people orgasm I do it at the same time and I think it’s like a visual thing for me.

But when he rubs it it’s too wet to the point I can’t feel anything.

Help?